Sunday 28 June 2009

FROM D BEAUTIFUL MIND OF A BRIDE..part 4

10.01.09 – Majlis Malam Berbedak & Berinai

I woke up early today around 8.30am feeling very refreshed and excited waiting for 2nyt..y? cos mlm ani me majlis berbedak. Of all occasions dlm wedding Brunei ani, I really love majlis berbedak..cos this is d time where the pengantin dress up in pakaian Brunei. And now it’s my turn to wear it..ehehe..As usual I had my mandi langir, this time nini yg mandikan me. After that put on my white baju kurung again, went downstairs, ate breakfast pastu naik ke bilik and prepared my baju and accessories for 2nyt. Eversince kan kawin ani, I developed a new hobby of vacuuming my room..EVERYDAY!!!..hahaha..mesti spotless my room atu.

Around noon I received a text message from an unknown no. Rupanya my fren yg lama dah nda tjumpa. She said ia kan dropby to my house and was already on her way. 10mins later sampai cia ia dgn hubby nya. Konon kan singgah skajap sja but melarat kami dua ah..ada jua 30mins..cian hubnya tunggu dlm keta..heheh..she couldn’t make it to our wedding iatah ia krumah kan bagi wedding gift..adui..terharu me eh. Tq so much lenx..Love ur gift.

After she went home, I felt so restless. Lunch pun nda me brapa mkn cos still rasa kanyang from breakfast. Last2nya apanah..me n Jojo watched VCD movie Indon lama..guess wat movie?? Hahaha..it’s an old Dono, Kasino, Indro movie..I don’t know where Jojo got it but it was fun watching movie atu again..hilarious bah durang tiga org ah. By 5pm after the movie ended, I showered and then kelai with my lens again..hehe.

Around 6.30+pm after Maghrib, Aunty Hjh Zaleha, my makeup artist came. She’s like MTV Most Wanted, one of the best makeup artist and highly recommended, that’s why I chose her to do my makeup for Berbedak, Sanding and Ambil-ambilan. Her assistant pun ada to help. I decided to ber usai in my room sja since it’s air-conditioned. Baik jua I kept my long hair, it was easier to twist them around the “ayam-ayam” thingy they call it, which I wore atas kepala..but sakit jua kana pulas2 rambut ah..paling sakit I think was the gear that was on my forehead cos it was really tight.

Jason n Eiwan came into my room and took shots of me getting ready. Ngam after I was done, Bibie, Diana, Izati n Nana came. We took pix together and then durang pun turun ke bawah. I took a pic of myself n sent via MMS to hubby..hehe..ia pun reply back with his pic..hmm nda mau alah jua ni..hahaha..I could hear the dikir downstairs, diketuai oleh cuz Marx. Time was 8.15pm but alum jua ada signal for me to go down.

At 8.30pm Wa Dadih came and signaled that it was time for me to go down. Wa Mamih escorted me downstairs and then disambut lagi by my Nini Usu bini who ushered me naik pelamin. Dikir marhaban pun start n Majlis Berbedak dimulakan by my dad and then my mom. After that my aunties and uncles followed. Last skali my cuzzies yg udah kawin..cos we have this tradition that only married people yg buleh membadaki..ntahla, nya urg tua-tua..

I praised Marx’s kumpulan dikir cos they also played the ‘gendang’ so it was very unique. Lawa lagi bunyi gendang nya ani..rasa kan dance to d beat..hahaha..but I couldn’t cos I was the main attention that nyt. I saw Jojo n my sis who were in charge of giving away souvenirs for org membadaki, menari2 dpn mata..hmm..tahan rasa sja..apa bleh buat..

Wah..byknya org membadaki..are there more? My head ani sakit udah cos the headgear on my forehead was starting to nag, and the “ayam-ayam” starts to feel heavy on top of my head. Around 9.20pm or so, abis udah me kana badaki. Wa Mamih and nini usu bini escorted me turun pelamin. I went and waited dlm guestroom while bungsu read the doa and then invited the jemputans for refreshment.

While jemputan makan, Jason took shots of me on the pelamin. I took a few more pix with families and friends before going upstairs to my room to take off the “ayam-ayam”. Cuz Aluz and her mom helped me to take everything off cos aunty Hjh Zaleha went home already. Ahhh..lega rasa kepala udah everything tanggal atu. Ringan jua rasanya..my hair was a mess after that cos byk penggunaan hairclips and rubberbands..hehe..I washed off my makeup and got ready kan mandi langir again..Sajuk x ah mandi at 11pm..if tah dpt request kai warm water mandi ah..hehe

After mandi langir, acara “masuk pengangunan” was done. N then me start berpacar..time was already midnyt..nini angah n nini KB yg memacari me..I was beginning to feel tired udah. Maklum tahan2 nda bgarak sal bepacar. Kan tidur, nda dpt..takut krg terkana pacar on my face..hehe..Jojo ntah dimana..i guez ia outside handling lucky draw..hmm..nda apa, bagi ia off 2nyt cos she’s been working very hard..heehee..I could hear my family diluar atu mcm meriah ja bunyinya..jealous nyer cos I couldn’t join..uwaaaa...asal siapa sja yg masuk bilik I asked, “behapa kamu?” rupanya durang sdg “Poco-poco”..hmm patutla meriah sakan diluar..aduuhaiii..

My eyes were getting sleepy udah but I still tahan cos alum buka pacar. When checked my pacar alum merah sgt so have to put sum more air asam. Ertinya menunggu ia dry lgi tu. My back ached n my feet felt cold cos nada movement. By 2.00am check pacar again but still orange..I told nini to just buka saja cos I felt exhausted sgt2 udah plus mcm lain ja rasa my throat ani usulnya. My head pun felt heavy..harap2 lah nda demam. Udah buka pacar, had to wait another 30mins barutah dpt dicuci..by 2.30am after I cleaned my hands and feet, I went to d kitchen..perut rasa lapar la..sum of my aunties n uncles still up sdg mkn. Jojo pun sdg mkn IndoMie..me pun ikut jua masbuk mamam..heheh..lapar bnr dah..riuh wa mamih cos me lum tidur..ehehe..lapas isi perut me pun naik kebilik my sis..tidur...time was 3.30am...ZzzZzzZzz

Theme of d nyt - Black & White

Wa Mamih escorting me downstairs

Nini Usu mengiringi naik pelamin

Majlis Berbedak dimulakan by my dad

next...my mom

AJK souvenirs berbedak..Jojo, my sista & cuz Beah

Kumpulan dikir bergendang..hehe

1..2..3..pose

Ujan bunga rampai


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